Rag Rollin' Rollin' Rollin'

(Limp Bizkit fans will see what I did with the title of this blog post!)

Last week I had a sudden memory of 'ragging' my sisters hair when we were both younger - basically you twist damp hair, wrap a rag (piece of cloth, not an actual rag) around it then twirl it up on itself, tie the two ends of the rag together, sleep on it and VOILA, in the morning you have curls!  Because Lauriel and I both want curly hair for our wedding, I decided to start experimenting - figuring that if I can become good enough at it (and give Lauriel some practice) that it will be something we can do ourselves for the wedding.

I have experimented on Gaby, Eloise & Lauriel's hair - learning various things along the way (such as the smaller the section of hair used, the bigger the frizz potential) (think Monica in the Bahamas...), the bigger the section, the looser & less frizzy the curl. 

Of course now I have to share photos with you all - of the various stages of ragging...

Living in Sin!!! FINALLY!!!!

We are FINALLY officially living in sin (okay, going by various religions & moral compasses, we will always be living in sin due to the lack of penis in our relationship)!   I have to say, it's a hell of a lot of fun as well... even the 'grown up', 'responsible' stuff we've been doing this week (mostly regarding government departments). 

Driving onto the ferry

Our trip up from Christchurch was very much smooth sailing (quite literally for the three hours we were on the ferry!) - the children were amazingly well behaved, I don't think there were any major meltdowns by either of them, and the one time Emmy did get close to tantrum territory was when we were stuck in the car waiting to go onto the ferry... and after putting Peppa Pig on the laptop for her, all tears disappeared and were replaced by laughter and the general happiness that comes with watching Peppa Pig.  It was lovely being able to see parts of the country that I had never seen before - Lauriel and I lost our 'top of the South Island virginity' at the same time, which was very fitting.  In total we were travelling for 13 hours - around 10 of those hours spent in the car... there were about 10 minutes in total when we weren't driving (getting petrol, going through the Wendys drivethru).  I drove the entire way, which was mostly to keep my passenger anxiety at bay (I make an awful passenger)... but it was also a really cool road to drive!  It was extremely hot in Picton, and admittedly quite the bore... but the rest of the trip was pretty cool!

Emmy as SpiderMan

On Tuesday Emersyn started at her new preschool (Little Kiwis Learning Centre, which Aidan also attended), and so far she seems to love it.  There were a few tears when we left on Tuesday (her, not me!), but Wednesday and Friday she seemed to be fine - and on none of those days did the teachers contact me to pick her up because she was inconsolable... quite the success I think, especially considering she had started throwing tantrums whenever I left her at preschool in Christchurch!  Gaby is rather jealous of Emersyn who has started school already - every morning (without fail, trust me) she exclaims how excited she is to be starting school soon.  The next just-under-a-month better go quickly.

Look!  Its Princess Gaby

Between arriving here and now, we have purchased a set of bunks for... well, two of the children to sleep in and a set of drawers, which from the start have been our 'must buy ASAP' items.  Obviously living in a 2 bedroom house with 4 children isn't optimum (or even close to it), so right now we are on the lookout for a bigger house, and it seems we have found one - and it just so happens to belong to one of Lauriel's friend, and could very much be a win-win situation for all involved, due to her friends tenants f*cking her around.  There is a HUGE yard, which we decided is more important than big bedrooms (we looked at a 4br house which had HUGE rooms but a tiny yard) with four very active children who love being outdoors.  Plus that leaves us the opportunity to get them a trampoline for Christmas...

We have also started planning our wedding more seriously - to the extent we have a book especially for wedding related stuff!  Our venue is sorted, date and time are sorted - so yesterday we ordered our wedding invitations... it seemed like the logical step.  Tomorrow is three months until the wedding, so really it is time to get things organised!!!  It's exciting doing so, and makes me feel like I'm actually an adult, which is something I've never really felt like before - for the past 6 years all I have acknowledged myself being is a Mum, which of course is amazing and wonderful, but I never really felt like there was another side to me.  But now I know there is!

One Year of Love!

Celebrating our first anniversary

Yesterday Lauriel and I celebrated our one year anniversary!!!

A long time ago, we said we hoped we'd be living together by the time 1 year rolled around, but I don't think either of us thought it would actually happen (so soon, not in general!) - but January 4 2013 rolled around, and we were indeed living together on that day.  Sure, we may have been in a bit of a halfway house (ie my wonderful parents), but there are no tearful goodbyes in our future, so technically we reached our goal.

The stand right behind us, that's where we sat on June 16th
and watched the All Blacks v Ireland... not to mention our
first game together (Stormers), and our third game together
(Hurricanes, with Lauren). and hopefully we'll get to the
stadium once or twice in 2013, though it won't be quite as easy

We booked a motel room for the night and went out to Lonestar for dinner - both getting the ribs, and being as naughty as to get dessert (Kahlua Moro Cheesecake for me & Creme Brulée for Lauriel).  Back at the motel we watched Graham Norton and the last half of Jaws, then I went to sleep - while Lauriel had a shitty nights sleep and didn't get to sleep until 2am.  I know there is the whole 'ooooo dirty night in a motel' cliche thingy... but I think we were both far too tired for that! 

This morning after leaving the motel, we stopped at Christchurch Stadium to say goodbye - it won't be a surprise to those of you who know that Christchurch Stadium is the home of the Crusaders, and also where we saw the All Blacks play, so it just HAD to be done.  We also said goodbye to Rugby Park... for similar reasons (as the name of the ground would suggest) - I don't think there are any other places which hold significance to us that we had to say goodbye to...  That said, we did have to say goodbye to Lauren, which was my first tear inducing goodbye.  Later in the morning it was Jason (Emmy's Daddy) - another tear inducer....

Ribs at Lonestar... om nom nom nom nommmmm

Right now it's 8.45pm on Saturday 5th January, 2013.  In 12 hours time we will hopefully be about 75 minutes out of Christchurch - headed for the ferry in Picton, before jumping back in the car in Wellington and heading for our final port of call - Wanganui.  In about 24 hours time we should be home - and my facebook 'current city' status thing can be changed from 'Christhurch, New Zealand' to 'Wanganui, New Zealand'.  I will no longer be a South Islander, I will be a North Islander.  In the space of a single day, I will go from being an East Coaster, to a West Coaster.  Lauriel's house will become OUR house... and then we can start the real search for our OWN (rental) house.

Dessert time!!!!  As Emmy would say, 'Mmmm delicious!'

The car is packed - and when I say packed, I mean it in every sense of the word.  Every spare nook and cranny is taken up by clothing, toys, books, bags, scooters (x2), blankets, sheets, pillows, boxes.  If I find anything that isn't packed, it's going to be a case of TOUGH LUCK, and getting it couriered up if whatever it is is deemed urgent enough (y'know - like the kids).

After all the build up, January 6th is ALMOST here... We've spent so many months working toward this date, and now that we're essentially there, the next big date to work toward is April 13th... the day we shall officially become stuck with each other forever and ever.  And ever.  AND EVER.  Before April 13th, there IS the beginning of the school year on February 7th, which will be Gaby's first day at Durie Hill School - and she is uber excited that she's going to be going to a school WITH A SWIMMING POOL, and NO UNIFORM!

Our route tomorrow... including a 3 hour ferry ride across Cook Strait